Teeny Love

Teenage Love .. the new trend these days. Being a teenager I have almost 25% of my friends who have girlfriends or boyfriends. I have heard a lot about "how She/He has changed my life", " how it is the best feeling in the world" dialogues. I was curious about it and inquired quite a few couples about their love lives and this is conclusion to which I came upon.


Love is based on 3 words :
a) Because: "Because he is handsome/beautiful .. I love him", "Because he/she is smart I like him/her", "Because he/she is rich", etc etc..  there are so many "Because" here. This says the relation depends on the quality of the boy/girl.
b) If: "If he does this for me I will love him", " If he keeps his promises", and so on. This is the conditional type of love. A lot of people deny this but there are many people having relation on the basis of word "IF".
c) In spite: "In spite of his behavior I love him " ,"In spite of his poor wealth I love him", "In spite of his poor health I love him",  this is very very rare kind of love and majorly exists in Hindi cinemas. People refer to it as true love.

People may say "In spite" as the most dominant and best type of love or true love but all three types of relations or love are neither good nor bad. No one is at the top. we have marriages with all kinds of love which stays forever. Love has no competition. The day it is compared, it losses its value.
In a healthy relation there are just two things necessary:
1) What girl wants .. all girls want is his partner to love her more than anything on this planet, trust her with other male friends, be protective about her and respect her of what she is and not what he wants her to be.

2) What boy wants.. a boy wants girl o love her most, always be there for him, support him, and give more attention to him than any other male.
These are basic needs, other depends for every relation. There are a lot of feelings involved in love like anger, jealousy, etc. At the end of the day the relation which stays healthy is the relation in which the boy & girl are able to keep their emotion of love above other emotion.
Keep Loving,
Sorry  for late post,


Thank You for reading,
From,
Hetansh Shah a.k.a Hetu :]

Comments

  1. Unknown19 August 2021 at 03:50

    Amazingly written. It gives a new direction to our thought process, kudos for that. I would like to know what 2021's Hetansh has to say about this article :P

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    1. Hetansh Shah19 August 2021 at 22:15

      I would like to erase it and rewrite it down 😂 Hate the grammatical mistakes

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