Anger : Your worst enemy

Few days ago I had a rough day and unintentionally I lost my cool on one of my friends. I was very disturbed at that moment and so I went to dad and talked to him. Dad asked me to bring an old notebook which is of no use to me and also some pins. He told me " Every time you argue with someone , put the pin through this book." . That was weird but never the less , I did what he asked. After 10 days there were about 6-7 pins in the book. He told me to remove the pins and fill the holes. I said it was impossible. He smiled and said to me " That's what happens when you argue with someone for silly reason. You may forget and bury the hatchet but scars remain . These scars turn into grudges and can lead to serious damage in relation. So think every word you speak . Let go some things in life , they are not worth arguing and losing a friend. Anger is your worst enemy , control it."

The other day , I was chatting with a female friend of mine . We both were pissed off with each other for some reason and taking turns to ignore each other and complain that the other one didn't had time for talking. Finally I thought we were wasting time being angry on each other for being busy , instead of spending even the smallest amount of time we get together and make the most of it .

It is fine to be angry but anger shouldn't stop your mind or control your tongue. Anger should be a rare sight so that people fear and listen to you when you are angry rather then saying that his/her anger is normal and no big deal.

"Anger is your worst enemy , control it "

Dedicated to,

My friends, and only my friends,

Thank you dad,

Thank You For Reading,

From Hetansh Shah a.k.a Hetu !~! :]