A Muggles' guide to creating Horcruxes

In the magical world of Harry Potter, horcruxes are objects in which a dark wizard, Voldemort, concealed fragments of his soul to achieve immortality. These objects were his lifeline, allowing him to return even after his physical form was destroyed. But what if I told you that our friendships might just operate similarly?

Picture this: You're a walking, talking, living horcrux! Sounds a bit odd, right? But think about it—our lives are a collection of experiences, memories, and emotions, and when we bond with others, we share a part of ourselves with them.

Each person in your life, whether family or friend, holds a distinct piece of your essence. Your mom might carry the piece that's your unbridled laughter, while your best friend holds the part that resonates with your passion for adventure. That one cousin might harbor your deepest secrets, and your sibling might carry the memories of your mischievous childhood escapades.


It's fascinating how each relationship houses a unique facet of who you are. Sometimes, we unknowingly hand over these pieces, and at other times, we do so consciously, drawn by a connection that feels inexplicably profound.

Let me illustrate this with an anecdote: Imagine meeting someone at a coffee shop. You strike up a conversation, and within minutes, you're sharing childhood stories, dreams, and fears. There's an instant rapport, and before you know it, you've shared a part of yourself that you've never revealed to anyone else. That person becomes a keeper of that treasured piece of your soul.


But here's the beautiful twist—while Voldemort used horcruxes to preserve his life, we use these human connections to rejuvenate our own spirits. There are days when life feels bleak, and in those moments, the laughter shared with your friend might rekindle the joy within you. The advice from a mentor could reignite your determination, and the love from a partner could mend a broken heart.

It's in these exchanges that we find solace, support, and, quite possibly, a way to rebuild ourselves when we're broken. Just as Voldemort's horcruxes were crucial to his resurrection, our connections with others can help resurrect our spirits from the depths of despair.



So, maybe, in our own non-magical way, we're utilizing the concept of horcruxes—dispersing parts of ourselves among those we care about, not for immortality, but for a profound, interconnected existence. After all, isn't it through these connections that we find the strength to come back to life when we feel shattered?

PS: Next time you engage with someone dear, remember—you might just be sharing a horcrux of your soul, and in doing so, contributing to the intricate mosaic that is your being.

Thank you for reading,

From,
Hetansh Shah


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